Thursday, December 31, 2009

'word-of-the-year'

Last year, I came across Christine Kane's concept of choosing a 'word-of-the-year,' rather than making new year's resolutions. I loved the idea. My word accompanied me throughout 2009 and weaved itself through my life like a golden thread. Now, at the close of the year, I am thoroughly enjoying looking back and seeing in just how many ways my word has had meaning for me and how I've lived by it. My word for 2009 was authenticity.

I have a number of friends who have been doing the 'word-of-the-year,' as well, and it's been great checking in with each other about the meaning our words have held for us and what's transpired over the last 12 months. It's been exciting to hear about my friends' word choices for the year ahead, and I am already looking forward to the conversations we'll have at the end of 2010 when we look back on the year that's now to come!

Check out Christine Kane's blog for tips and ideas on how to choose your word for 2010!

Wishing you a smooth transition from this year to the next! May 2010 be your best year yet, and may you manifest your dreams, desires, visions, and aspirations!

Monday, December 21, 2009

reach out and connect with someone


While I was out on my run the other day, letting thoughts and feelings course through me, as they usually do while I exercise, a memory floated into my consciousness. A memory of an experience I'd had three years prior, close to this time of year. Just remembering this experience brought warmth to my heart, and I wanted to share it here with you. I wrote about it on my personal blog at the time, and I'd like to share an excerpt of that blog post with you.

It was December of 2006. I was in upstate NY, visiting my in-laws for Christmas. A couple of days after Christmas, I took the train to Manhattan to go meet up with a few friends, and I spent a beautiful day in the city. The warmth and feeling of connection with my friends that day still feeds me now.

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On the train ride home, I found a seat to myself. At the first stop, a rather veloptuous lady got on the train and sat down next to me. My initial thought was to feel bummed that my space was being crowded. In fact, I almost felt a bit claustrophobic. I decided to shift my thought pattern, and, instead of feeling resistance and separation, chose to feel a connection to the person next to me. What really inspired me to do so and gave me that little extra push was a line I read in my book (Awaken The Giant Within, by Anthony Robbins) at that very moment. I'd just been reading a paragraph on loneliness. The last line of the paragraph read:

Take immediate action to reach out and connect with someone.

I sat there for a few minutes, slouched into my seat, and a bit resistant to break the invisible barrier between us. Usually, the way I strike up a conversation with a stranger is by seeking out eye contact first and then addressing them. Since this lady was sitting right next to me, there was no opportunity for our eyes to casually meet, as I would have had to turn and look straight at her. She was reading a book. I gathered my nerve, sat up straight in my seat and said to the lady: 'Is that a good book you're reading?' That started a 1 1/2-hour conversation that lasted the entire train ride home! She turned out to be quite a fascinating lady who had travelled to Ghana, contracted Malaria, lost a daughter... I talked a bit, but mostly listened to her. She told me much about her life, her family, her travels... It was neat. I was so glad I'd broken out of my comfort zone and opened myself up to making a connection. If we just are willing to open our hearts a little more, we can see that we are not seperate from the world. Instead of making assumptions about the people sitting next to us on a train, standing behind us in line at the check-out counter, or waiting next to us in the doctor's office, if we just reach out and give them the chance to open themselves up to us, we will discover a great deal of compassion for them and the world as a whole - and, thereby, compassion for ourselves, as well!

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Remembering this interaction during my run the other day brought me great joy. It got me to thinking how amazing one little gesture can be and just what a difference it can make in our lives and the lives of others. Three years later, I am still filled with warmth at the thought of this experience! I have no idea how much it touched the lady who I talked to on the train, but, chances are, the joy of this simple but beautiful connection continued to seep into the cracks of her life well after the fact, as it did for me.

I hope this story serves as an inspiration for you to reach out and connect with others. Be it in line at the post office, at the grocery store, on the bus or a plane... Take immediate action to reach out and connect with someone. And remember to pay attention to the little signs that show up in your life - like a line you're reading in your book at a crucial moment ;), or a song playing on the radio, or a billboard ad that says something of meaning to you.

May your holiday season be filled with lots of heart-warming connections and joy!

Monday, December 14, 2009

A Thank-You a Day...

Check out this great article by Dr. Christiane Northrup, author of Women's Bodies, Women's Wisdom.

What are you grateful for today?

Thursday, December 10, 2009

changes...

All changes, even the most longed for, have their melancholy; for what we leave behind is a part of ourselves; we must die to one life before we can enter into another!

- Gail Sheehy
(1937-, American journalist, author)

Wednesday, December 9, 2009

making someone's day

Nothing makes my day like making someone else's day!

Try it today... surprise someone by doing something thoughtful for them - no matter how small - and see how wonderful you feel when you see their face light up in gratitude.

Tuesday, December 8, 2009

smiles are contagious

A very dear patient sent me this clip. You can't help but smile when you watch it. Help spread some of that contagious happy energy while spreading awareness of the trials so many people are facing! Pass it along if you feel so inclined.



You never know how much a simple smile may brighten another person's day. Smile often - it's contagious!

Thursday, December 3, 2009

Living gluten-free this holiday season

More and more people nowadays are living on gluten-free diets - whether that be because they have been diagnosed with Celiac Disease (an autoimmune disorder in which the lining of the small intestine becomes inflamed and damaged over time with exposure to gluten - a protein found in wheat, barley, rye, and triticale); a test ordered by their healthcare provider has revealed a gluten sensitivity; or they just found that they feel better when they stay away from gluten.


Many of my patients find that, when they cut gluten out of their diets and, instead, base their diets on gluten-free cereals, such as quinoa, millet, amaranth, teff, and buckwheat (which is unrelated to wheat, despite what its name suggests), they experience less bloating and bowel irregularities, less fatigue and allergy symptoms, greater levels of energy and mental clarity, as well as a stronger immunity.


Those people who are new to a gluten-free diet often find themselves at a loss for what to eat and how to create tasty meals without the omnipresent gluten. Holidays and social events can be a challenging time when dishes full of gluten abound and family and friends are not always understanding of your particular needs. I have found that the simplest way to navigate social situations with food is to offer to contribute a dish - that way you will know that there will be at least one item you can safely eat. If gluten is a major symptom-trigger for you, then stick to your own dish. It isn't worth the risk of getting 'glutenized' if you are going to feel sick for three days after that. If gluten causes you minor discomfort that you prefer to avoid on a regular basis in order to feel your best, but you really love the holiday goodies, then you might decide it's worth the trade-off to have a few nibbles, but be sure that the bulk of what you're eating doesn't contain gluten (or any other foods you know your body reacts adversely to).


This Thanksgiving, I improvised in creating my own gluten-free stuffing. I received very positive feedback and was quite pleased with the outcome myself, so I thought I'd share my recipe with you. It's very quick and simple, and it tasted surprisingly similar to traditional stuffing. (The secret lies in the flavor imparted by the celery, onions, and thyme, which are an integral part of any stuffing recipe. ;))


delicious gluten-free stuffing recipe:

(feeds about 6 people)


ingredients (use preferrably organic whenever possible):


1 cup quinoa (uncooked)

1 medium acorn squash

extra virgin olive oil

1 medium onion

1 bunch celery stalks

a few twigs of fresh thyme (or a few pinches of dried thyme if fresh is not available)

sea salt

pepper

1/2 cup dried cranberries

raw pecans


Start with cooking the quinoa by following the instructions on the package.


**Note: there are a couple of different ways to cook quinoa - you can either cook it like rice and measure out the proper amount of water, or you can boil it like pasta and strain it in a fine-mesh sieve, which is how I like to do it. I find that 17 minutes in boiling water is the perfect amount of time for just the right texture to my personal liking. I usually cook up a big batch (2 cups of dry quinoa) to last me for the better portion of the week and keep it in my fridge. That way, I have it handy to use in various dishes for breakfast, lunch, and dinner, as needed. If you want to save yourself some time the day you are preparing this dish, you might want to pre-boil your quinoa the day before.


Pre-heat the oven to 375 degrees F.


Wash the acorn squash and cut it in half. Scrape out the seeds with a spoon. Drizzle a little bit of extra virgin olive oil on the flesh-side of both pieces, then place them face-down on a cookie sheet. Bake for approximately 35-40 minutes, until tender to the fork. The underside will become nicely browned and caramelized. Set aside to cool.


Meanwhile, thoroughly wash the celery stalks to remove any dirt and chop the celery and onion. At medium heat, add enough olive oil to your pan to lightly coat the bottom. Once the olive oil has heated up, add in the celery and onion. Sautee for about 10 minutes, stirring regularly and adding in thyme, sea salt and pepper to taste.


Next add in the cranberries and stir, then the cooked quinoa. After stirring the mixture thoroughly, remove from stove.


Once the acorn squash has cooled down enough, peel off the outer dark-green skin and cut the flesh into cubes by cutting first length-wise and then cross-wise on a cutting board. Gently fold the squash into the quinoa mixture, as the flesh will be rather soft.


Transfer the stuffing to an 8 in. X 8 in. pyrex baking dish. At this point, if you are not ready to eat, you can refrigerate the stuffing and heat it in the oven later. Or place it right in the oven for just a few minutes to make sure the entire mixture is warm.


Just before serving, sprinkle with raw pecans. If you want, you may honey-glaze the pecans beforehand. Simply melt a couple of teaspoons of honey in a pan and add the raw pecans, stirring continually at low to medium heat, taking care not to burn the nuts. As soon as they begin to brown, transfer them to a plate to cool. The pecans will become crunchy as they cool off and dry. You might have to break them apart like brittle, then sprinkle on top of your dish.


**Tip: I also love serving these on salads with pomegranate seeds and goat cheese - another holiday favorite!


ENJOY!! :) ... and feel free to give me feedback on how the dish came out for you!